Something has been annoying me lately.
So over people saying - 'just saying'.
Being rude doesn't excuse what you just said because you said 'just saying'.
When I was at school, many moons ago, it was 'no offence' and then it was usually followed on by something offensive.
Same goes for 'not being nasty', followed by something nasty.
Yes, we all have our opinions and values but for me, it sounds patronising and immature.